Finding Yourself at 21 vs. Redefining Yourself at 39
Finding yourself and creating yourself can be one of the most overwhelming and often challenging things to do in life. Often, when we reach 18 or, at the latest, 21, we think we have everything figured out, but this is far from perfect. It’s the time when not only are we allowed to drive, but we also start our careers and are given our first taste of independence and freedom. Although being an adult is generalised, there are stark differences in the maturity of both. At 21, we are generally told to find ourselves as if we had actually misplaced our personality somewhere between college lectures and Instagram reels or forgotten it on a bookshelf. At this age, it is the time to try to backpack, to flirt with veganism, join a poetry or book club; basically, do anything and everything. There is no clear sense of direction. It is at this age that we say yes to nervousness, no to stability, and we think that we have found ourselves after having visited a booksto...