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Snaping out of Victim Mentality

If it’s never our fault, we can’t take responsibility for it. If we can’t take responsibility for it, we’ll always be its victim.” Eckhart Tolle (Author, The Power Of Now) How many of us have blamed our situations or family members for what is happening in our lives? Or, even come across people in our own lives who feel that everything that has happened to them is because of an unfair event? Many people are not even aware that they are in such situations and they are limiting themselves – by blaming themselves or someone else.   Just as easy as it is to criticise those mired in a victim mindset, it’s easier than you think to sink into one yourself! In life, everyone is the victim of something, but not everyone CHOOSES to behave with a victim mentality! Those who do choose to be a victim, end up living angrier, more selfish, don’t have resilience and more entitled lives than those who refuse to be a victim. These people tend to vent more and h