Why Does Attention Sometimes Feel Like Affection?
Have you ever found yourself in one of those situations where you are literally waiting for a simple reply, or constantly thinking about a person you have just met because they made you feel validated or noticed? Perhaps we all have. It is funny how even the smallest things can mean so much to us. It could be a random text asking if you are alright, someone remembering a tiny detail about you, or someone giving you their undivided attention when you haven't received much of it in a while. Funny how our minds work, and suddenly, that one message or compliment can make us feel so good about ourselves. This feeling of being noticed or valued can very often be mistaken for affection, and I think this matters more than we realise. Don't we all want to be seen, heard, or understood? We do. However, attention should not always be mistaken for affection because the two are not necessarily the same. Someone could simply be lending you an ear on a particular day, being kind to you, ...