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Living in Mumbai: Freedom, Silence, and Everything In Between

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There is something deeply ironic about living alone in   Mumbai. Everywhere you look, people are fighting for space—on trains, in small apartments, in crowded cafés where conversations overlap and chairs almost touch. Space here is currency, and it isn’t always easy to come by. People crave it. They work for it, wait for it, even dream about it. And yet, I have it. Freely. No one is waiting outside my door. No background noise of a television—just four cats occasionally breaking the silence. No interruptions mid-thought… except the ones created by my own mind. It sounds like freedom. And in many ways, it is. But space isn’t always something you choose. Sometimes, it’s something that quietly chooses you. Because space is not just physical. It’s also the absence of shared moments—the quiet comfort of someone else being there, even when nothing is being said. The in-between pauses that feel fuller when they’re shared. There are nights when the city is unbearably loud, yet my room feel...

From Voluntary to Visionary: A 12 Year Journey with Angel Xpress Foundation

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 Punita has spent over a decade shaping impactful educational and social initiatives through her work with Angel Xpress and other grassroots programs.  From teaching entrepreneurship to young students to leading large-scale programs, her journey reflects commitment, innovation and purpose.  Karina Pandya gets candid with Punita Singh Q1. You’ve been associated with Angel Xpress Foundation for over a decade. How did your  journey with the organisation begin ? I started volunteering with AXF in 2013. Honestly, it feels like AXF found me - that it was just waiting to happen. For almost 2-3 months before I joined, I kept hearing of their work through friends who were associated with them. And then one day, a post on one of our community WhatsApp groups made it click - it was stories of AXF children, small wins, big smiles—and it stayed with me. I was looking for something more meaningful with more time on my hands, and I decided to just show up. I began as a maths t...

Temporary / Fleeting Joy

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The Illusion of Forever in a Finite Life In this never-ending cycle of life, we all know—at least on some level—that nothing lasts forever. Nothing is permanent. We take nothing with us when we leave, if there is anything beyond this life at all. And yet, we live as if everything is here to stay. We love as if it will last forever. We chase happiness as if it can be secured permanently. We hold onto people, moments, and emotions as if they define something eternal within us. Why do we do this? This contradiction between what we  know  and how we  behave  is perhaps one of life’s most subtle ironies.   The Awareness of an Ending We are the only beings, perhaps, who live with the awareness of our own ending. We know that one day, everything will stop—our thoughts, our memories, our relationships. And still, we choose to feel deeply. Take love, for example. We enter it knowing—whether consciously or not—that it may not last. That circumstances change, people change...

Husn & Situationship: when feelings don’t get a name

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A modern dating phenomenon, situationships are among the most emotionally complex experiences people navigate today. Defined by their non-committal and ambiguous nature, these relationships exist in a space where emotional intimacy is present, but clarity is absent. Particularly common among Gen Z, they reflect a growing reluctance to formally commit while still seeking connection. Often emerging from dating apps, hook-ups, or friendships with blurred boundaries, situationships may resemble casual dating—but the emotions involved are far from casual. Many individuals find themselves in this undefined middle ground: sharing daily conversations, meaningful moments, and emotional closeness, yet lacking the security of a clearly defined relationship. This imbalance is often rooted in poor communication, where expectations remain unspoken. As a result, one person may become deeply invested while the other remains detached, creating a quiet but persistent emotional disconnect. The song  ...

Friendships We Grow Into and Fall Apart From

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Friendships —the one bond we believe will remain constant in our lives—quietly transform over time. Not because we make sudden changes, but because we ourselves grow and evolve. It’s a gentle shift we’re rarely prepared for. Some people stay, some fade, but each of them shapes who we become. Friendships rarely remain the same—and maybe they aren’t meant to. The people who once felt like your entire world slowly become names you smile at on your phone screen. Some drift away silently, while others stay and grow alongside you. Friendships aren’t fixed; they are living, changing parts of our lives. In childhood, everything feels simple. We don’t overthink compatibility, values, or long-term alignment. We become friends with almost anyone who crosses our path. A best friend is someone you sit next to in school, sharing laughter and small, sweet moments. You promise to be friends forever—but how long is forever? Life moves on. Different schools, different environments—and suddenly, that “fo...

Crawford Market: Mumbai’s Most Authentic Market Experience

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Mumbai is constantly evolving, but one thing that has stood the test of time is its markets—especially those across South Mumbai. From the bustling lanes of Colaba Causeway to the antique chaos of Chor Bazaar, and the trading hubs of Zaveri Bazaar and Mangaldas Market, each market reflects a different side of the city. Yet, among them all, one market remains the most authentic: Crawford Market, also known as Mahatma Jyotiba Phule Mandai. Located opposite the Mumbai Police Headquarters and close to Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj Terminus and JJ Flyover, it was once the city’s main wholesale fruit market. This changed in March 1996, when the wholesale fruit trade was relocated to Navi Mumbai. Built in 1869, it is one of Mumbai’s first covered markets, designed in a striking Norman Gothic style. Walking into Crawford Market feels like stepping into another era. The colonial architecture frames a scene that is anything but still—fruit vendors calling out to customers, spice sellers lining nar...