What Changes on the Road to Forty
No one wakes up on their fortieth birthday with everything figured out, do they? There’s no sudden wisdom download. No magical disappearance of fear or insecurity, is there? It all yet exists. What really changes is your ability to manage them better. There’s no immunity to heartbreak. No special spectacles that suddenly make you choose perfectly in love. But somewhere along the road to forty, something does shift. Your tolerance and maturity change. Anxiety is no longer mistaken for excitement. Curiosity is no longer confused with alignment. What begins to matter is what settles your soul — not what temporarily stimulates it. You start noticing who truly shows up in your life and who doesn’t. Where your energy returns to you and where it quietly drains away. This is when you raise your standards. Not because you’re snobbish. Not because you think you’re above anyone. But because you finally understand what works for you. By now, you’ve seen enough beginnings to know they don’t m...